not only is the ITR header 4-1 and opposite of what he wants, but it is also a 2.5" collector which is too large for him.
and for the question of what is a better header between the five you named. no question about it, it is the comptech. you see the comptech has a stepped design, which the other four dont, which creates an anti-reversion affect, this eliminates backpressure. IMO comptech makes the best bang for the buck header out there. it has the performance of the big boys (well close to the big boys) with the price of the little tikes.
and with your sizing and hp goals i would look into a different exhaust. with a 2" collector you should get a 2.25ID cat (im not going to go into my rant on OBX as you already know my feelings), but your 60mm exhaust is a little too big. louse is right about wanting wanting to step up the exhaust as it goes to the rear of the car. but 2 3/8 is a little too big of a step up. a 2.25" OD exhaust would be the proper size. you would go from 2"->2.25ID->2.25OD. it is good to step up, but a drastic step is not a good one to take. hope that helps. oh and read the articles, all of this is explained in there, alot better than i have. and you will understand it alot more, which is better.
Thanks
alex