Since the builder, tuner (or non-tuning!) and driver is me...I only have ME to blame

I like it that way!
I havnt had any lean running issues...only rich.
After much more pondering today...I can pretty much rule out my compression loss and ring scare I had.The plugs were deffinitely fouled by gas. also ran the car and pulled plug wires 1 at a time to see if I was getting good spark to the plugs...all good.so the last things to check are what is causing the rich mixture, and not focus on just 2 and 3 cyl. cause nothing is leading toward that at all.I guess 2 and 3 are just getting the brunt of the richness or something.
Im going to check the MAP and o2 senser, fuel press. and check for vac. lines and possible leaks... even though I dont hear any.I Believe its sensor related either o2 or some load type sensor on the intake --because the stumbling only happens when heavy throttle is applied, going up hill. no problem at all at idle till of course plugs foul.what i dont get either is Im not throwing a code for any sensors.now Im rambling!!...
now for the real stump I ran into today. You ready!
Just to start you should know that this b18c1 (is swapped into a 92 civic hatch)
They Integra harness wire coming from the IAT sensor that is supposed to run next into the Map sensor on the throttle body was never connected! sounds like...Ohhh theres your problem...oh no theres more confusion!
There was another harness connector coming off the back of the firewall (coming from the civic harness i gather) that WAS connected.So I thought "hey I just tuned and set timing on this thing without the map even hooked up! " so If I disconnect this DUMMY harness I shouldnt notice a difference cause the real connecter is right here coming from the integra harness".... NOPE when I disconected it , the motor cut off !!
If you can POSSIBLY understand what I am portraing it would be a miricle!For some odd reason there are 2 connectors for MAP the one that needs to be hooked up doesnt run right when hooked up and throws a MAP CEL code. The dummy one that I dont understand how it can be running to the computer, when its hooked up it runs with no code. yet I have this bad rich running problem??? Shouldnt the only way to run the MAP be from the integra harness?
anyway Im tired and hope someone has some insight on this part of the fiasco! Atleast a place I can start testing.
Thanks again,
brian